TODAY'S MOMENT: CONNECT THROUGH CANDOUR
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At the heart of genuine connection lies the beauty of candour. Deep, meaningful relationships are built on honesty, not flattery. Flattery may seem appealing, but it's a tool of manipulation, not the foundation of true friendship. Authentic friendships are forged in the fibres of honesty and integrity.
We all have blind spots, areas in our lives we cannot see but need attention. The true question is, do you have someone in your life who loves you enough to point them out? Growth happens when we embrace the truth, even when it's hard to hear. Here are three key principles for being candid in relationships, to help turn everyday moments into lasting memories:
We all have blind spots, areas in our lives we cannot see but need attention. The true question is, do you have someone in your life who loves you enough to point them out? Growth happens when we embrace the truth, even when it's hard to hear. Here are three key principles for being candid in relationships, to help turn everyday moments into lasting memories:
- Compliment in Public, Correct in Private: Whether with your children, spouse, employees, or friends, uplift them publicly. Save corrections for private moments. This approach respects their dignity and fosters trust.
- Correct When They Are Up, Not Down: Timing is crucial. When someone feels good, they can handle constructive feedback better. When they are down, even gentle correction can feel overwhelming. Choose your moments wisely.
- Prove You Can Take Correction Before You Give It: Be willing to receive correction yourself. Show others that you value their input by being open to feedback. Seek to understand before seeking to be understood. Open your life and heart first, and others will follow.
By practicing these principles, you can build relationships founded on trust and honesty. Let's strive to connect deeply and genuinely, turning simple moments into cherished memories through the power of candour.
DON'T WASTE YOUR MOMENTS!